FEMALE types, MALE types THINK very differently. Still like our ancient ANCESTORS! FEMALES were gatherers, CARETAKERS – did that in groups. FEMALE groups would TALK, talk, talk… – until a solution appeared. MALES were the HUNTERS – did that usually alone. MALES were about ACTION – were SILENT until problem
Gratitude is the antidote to emotional pain. And the antidote to fear. And it is absolutely the magic for a happy relationship. If you’re in pain because someone hurt you, being grateful for things you love about them, for nice things they’ve done, actually makes you feel loved in that
Your emotions are your ultimate source of power! Biologically, your energy comes from the cells in your body. But the energy in your cells has to come from somewhere, and that resource is your emotions! Your happiness is your power!! When you’re depressed, you don’t even have the energy to
In #relationships #female types and #male types are quite different, according to #psychology #research. Female #identities have three main #needs: 1. Be really #seen – and #heard – to have their #feelings acknowledged 2. Be really #understood – from her #perspective, not yours! Females want you to #listen, #understand,
#Female types and #male types, whichever one you #identify with as being, #think, and solve #problems, very differently, still like our #ancient #ancestors! Back then, males were the #hunters, did that #alone, focused on #action, saying nothing until the problem is solved. Females were the gatherers, caretakers, did that in
I have heard it often – I’m so #mad at #myself! How is that going to #help you?! When someone is mad at you, does it make you feel #good? Make you feel #supported and #strong? Probably it makes you feel #horrible, #weak, #rejected, #unloved. It absolutely will NOT help
We all make #assumptions. Most of us know on some level that’s not a good idea! And, in #relationships we tend to #assume the #worst!! Because of our #insecurity and #fear, we make things up to be upset about. Since we make assumptions anyway, if you want a #happy
A #happy #relationship requires focus on #giving, instead of #getting. My recent focus was, “what if you devastate me?”, and I pulled back. She’s #uncertain, so I closed my #heart for #protection. That #hurt her deeply. Then I realized #closing my heart for protection is all about what I
What is #love? I believe it’s another aspect of what the Chinese call #Chi, or #life force #energy. In the Bible it says “God is love”, so, love is #God. To me, love is #spiritual #connection. I have found that when I #connect with someone #emotionally I connect #spiritually,
WANT to keep your #relationship #exciting??! Then – Always #attract!!! Always do what you did at the #beginning!! You showed your #best side, your #nicest self, saw the best in them, and you showed them, “I #like you!!” Keep seeing everything you fell in #love with, praise them frequently