If what you’re doing isn’t working, do something else. Don’t get mad. Don’t feel defeated. Smile that you now know what doesn’t work, and do something else.
Put YOURSELF First? Really? Do you often feel empty and unhappy, because you put other people’s needs first, and sacrifice your own? You’re so nice! My client, we’ll call him David, did that all his life, even allowing his wife to verbally abuse him. I encouraged David to ask, “What’s