He’s not actually my type, but he really loves me. This mindset usually ends up with the female wanting to “fix”, change, the male, so that he is more her type. Unless we have a life-changing epiphany, most of the time we don’t change much. In order to have a
FEMALE types, MALE types THINK very differently. Still like our ancient ANCESTORS! FEMALES were gatherers, CARETAKERS – did that in groups. FEMALE groups would TALK, talk, talk… – until a solution appeared. MALES were the HUNTERS – did that usually alone. MALES were about ACTION – were SILENT until problem
In relationships, female types and male types have very different NEEDS.
In #relationships #female types and #male types are quite different, according to #psychology #research. Female #identities have three main #needs: 1. Be really #seen – and #heard – to have their #feelings acknowledged 2. Be really #understood – from her #perspective, not yours! Females want you to #listen, #understand,
#Female types and #male types, whichever one you #identify with as being, #think, and solve #problems, very differently, still like our #ancient #ancestors! Back then, males were the #hunters, did that #alone, focused on #action, saying nothing until the problem is solved. Females were the gatherers, caretakers, did that in