Chances are you will lose, if meeting your expectations is your priority. Focus instead on gratitude for what that person or situation is offering you. Then your heart stays open. Others will respond to you in positive ways, and you will be happy. Stick with gratitude.
Lovers love to be pleased, but ultimately end up bored, or even losing respect for the pleaser. If my only priority is pleasing her, chances are I will end up losing my individuality, and then I’ll have nothing left to contribute to the relationship besides pleasing her. In order to
Almost none of us ever got a lesson in how to have a love relationship! And most of our parents set really bad examples. Educate yourself!! Read books, watch videos, learn how to communicate and how to act. Or, make an appointment with me. I love to help.
Are You In Love? Do you really like this person, respect them? Do you feel good about yourself when you’re with this person? Do you miss them passionately when you’re not together? Are you excited for your friends and family to meet them? Do you feel a strong spiritual and
When you first fell in love, you were way excited, constantly expressed adoration, and love. You loved everything about them, you overlooked things that weren’t perfect, sometimes even thought those things were sort of cute. There’s no reason to ever stop. Then you will have blissful love.
Bring Your Best Self Like you did in the beginning, bring your best self, always. He or she truly does not owe you anything just because you love them. In the beginning, you gave and gave – love, admiration, praise, attention, respect. And you loved everything about them, likely even
Who Loves Ya, Baby? It’s the 5-year-old in us who falls in love. And it’s the 5-year-old in the other person that we fall in love with. That sweet, precious, innocent, beautiful, little one who came from the spirit world just 5 years ago, and who wants nothing more than
The Second Agreement from don Miguel Ruiz. When my partner or friend is having a bad day, chances are it’s not about me. We all live very intricate lives that involve a lot of challenges outside our relationship . When I decide that it’s about me and get hurt, then
“Anything will give up its secrets”, said American scientist George Washington Carver, “if you love it enough.” He says, “Not only have I found that when I talk to the little flower or to the little peanut they give up their secrets, but I have also found that when I
“Love is but the discovery of ourselves in others, and the delight in the recognition.” Alexander Smith, a Scottish poet, clearly a romantic man, wrote these words in the 1800’s. My observation is that we are drawn to people, whether as friends or as lovers, who are similar to us,