Are You In Love? Do you really like this person, respect them? Do you feel good about yourself when you’re with this person? Do you miss them passionately when you’re not together? Are you excited for your friends and family to meet them? Do you feel a strong spiritual and
When you first fell in love, you were way excited, constantly expressed adoration, and love. You loved everything about them, you overlooked things that weren’t perfect, sometimes even thought those things were sort of cute. There’s no reason to ever stop. Then you will have blissful love.
Love is not enough! There has to be trust and respect and kindness and admiration and appreciation and gratitude and sweetness of speech and emotional intimacy as well as physical intimacy. Not just sometimes. Always.
Bring Your Best Self Like you did in the beginning, bring your best self, always. He or she truly does not owe you anything just because you love them. In the beginning, you gave and gave – love, admiration, praise, attention, respect. And you loved everything about them, likely even
Who Loves Ya, Baby? It’s the 5-year-old in us who falls in love. And it’s the 5-year-old in the other person that we fall in love with. That sweet, precious, innocent, beautiful, little one who came from the spirit world just 5 years ago, and who wants nothing more than
The Second Agreement from don Miguel Ruiz. When my partner or friend is having a bad day, chances are it’s not about me. We all live very intricate lives that involve a lot of challenges outside our relationship . When I decide that it’s about me and get hurt, then
“Love is but the discovery of ourselves in others, and the delight in the recognition.” Alexander Smith, a Scottish poet, clearly a romantic man, wrote these words in the 1800’s. My observation is that we are drawn to people, whether as friends or as lovers, who are similar to us,
Giving Love You can’t give something that you don’t have. If you want to give love, you have to have love to give. If you don’t love yourself, then you actually don’t have any love to give to someone else. In order give love, you absolutely have to love yourself
Don’t try to control him. Men, maybe all of us, usually hate to be controlled, and he will likely run away.