Usually, they did NOT intend to hurt you! And even if you’re wrong, you put them in a position where they’re not being accused, and more often than not they will end up apologizing to you for their mistake.
Love will die if you’re there for what you can get out of it. If you constantly GIVE love, kindness, trust, and attention to your partner, just because you love them so much that giving to them delights you, their love for you will continue to increase, and you will
If my relationship is my only source of happiness, I’ll end up sucking it dry, sucking the life out of it. We fall in love because we’re so excited about who that person is. If I lose who I am as an individual, if I become HER version of Walter,
He’s not actually my type, but he really loves me. This mindset usually ends up with the female wanting to “fix”, change, the male, so that he is more her type. Unless we have a life-changing epiphany, most of the time we don’t change much. In order to have a
Chances are you will lose, if meeting your expectations is your priority. Focus instead on gratitude for what that person or situation is offering you. Then your heart stays open. Others will respond to you in positive ways, and you will be happy. Stick with gratitude.
Lovers love to be pleased, but ultimately end up bored, or even losing respect for the pleaser. If my only priority is pleasing her, chances are I will end up losing my individuality, and then I’ll have nothing left to contribute to the relationship besides pleasing her. In order to
Almost none of us ever got a lesson in how to have a love relationship! And most of our parents set really bad examples. Educate yourself!! Read books, watch videos, learn how to communicate and how to act. Or, make an appointment with me. I love to help.
The quality of my life is the quality of my relationships. All of them – significant others, friends, coworkers, clients, family. Life is relationships. We seem to define who we are by who loves us. And who’s responsible for making my relationships great? ME!!
Feeling lonely? Imagine holding 5-year-old you on your lap, look into the eyes of little you, feel the soul of little you, and hear and FEEL little you saying to adult you, “look how far we’ve come, look what we overcame, I’m proud of you, I love you.” You won’t
Are You In Love? Do you really like this person, respect them? Do you feel good about yourself when you’re with this person? Do you miss them passionately when you’re not together? Are you excited for your friends and family to meet them? Do you feel a strong spiritual and