#4. Always Do Your Best The Fourth Agreement from don Miguel Ruiz. We accept that in order for us to be loved we have to love ourselves. In order to genuinely love ourselves, we have to feel good about ourselves, and be proud of ourselves. To accomplish that we must
#3. Don’t Make Assumptions The Third Agreement from don Miguel Ruiz. Most of the confrontations in our lives happen because one person assumed the wrong thing. When we look back at misunderstandings that we have had in the past, we realize that often the other person didn’t mean it that
The Second Agreement from don Miguel Ruiz. When my partner or friend is having a bad day, chances are it’s not about me. We all live very intricate lives that involve a lot of challenges outside our relationship . When I decide that it’s about me and get hurt, then
Just a moment! All you have to handle is just this moment. You don’t have to change your whole life right now. Just this moment. And make this moment fun. How? Gratitude, gratitude, gratitude… for anything, anyone, right now. That makes this moment much lighter, much easier, much more fun.
When we die and go to the Light, we have a panoramic life review, where we experience every moment of the life that we just lived, but from the perspective of the other person, how we effected them. This is not to be judged or rewarded, but simply so that
All day, to everybody… practice kindness, and you will realize you’re already in heaven now. Philosopher Jack Kerouac wrote these words. You can see it in your life. Every time you show kindness to someone, their heart lights up, they smile, and they show appreciation, which truly is the same
The rest of us are without a source of many wonderful things without you, says philosopher Leo Buscaglia. Love yourself, accept yourself, forgive yourself, be good to yourself. We need you.
Nothing Lasts Forever You will miss the moment… if you dwell on the past or the future. “Do not look back, my friend, for no one knows how the world ever began. Do not fear the future, nothing lasts forever.” These are to me comforting words from the ancient Afghan
Gratitude… “the more you are in a state of gratitude, the more you will attract things to be grateful for.” Buddha said this thousands of years ago. So, it’s not breaking news! We manifest the very things that we think about the most. Want more things to be grateful for?
The heart has its own language. The heart has a hundred thousand ways to speak. The ancient Afghan / Persian poet Rumi wrote these words. We say so much more from our hearts than through our words. When our words don’t match our hearts, people know, and they don’t believe