Guilt

Guilt Is Useless

Guilt. It’s completely useless because it drains you of our energy, and certainly does not manifest what you desire. In fact, it manifests the opposite of what you desire, which is more of the stuff that’s making you feel guilty. Consider being grateful for what you learned. Gratitude energizes you,

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Higher Self - How To Find It

Higher Self – How To Find It

What really is your higher self? For me, the most effective way to know my higher self is to step back behind finite Walter, and see that he really is giving it his best shot. And to nurture him and support him and love him in the deepest spiritual sense

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Assume The Best

Assume The Best In Love

Usually, they did NOT intend to hurt you! And even if you’re wrong, you put them in a position where they’re not being accused, and more often than not they will end up apologizing to you for their mistake.

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Happy Relationship Requires Giving

Happy Relationship Requires Giving

Love will die if you’re there for what you can get out of it. If you constantly GIVE love, kindness, trust, and attention to your partner, just because you love them so much that giving to them delights you, their love for you will continue to increase, and you will

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Loving World

Loving World

Loving people live in a loving world. Hostile people live in a hostile world. Same world. Wayne Dyer said that. Even quantum physics says we really do create our own reality. You want a loving world? Be love.

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Sucking It Dry

Sucking It Dry

If my relationship is my only source of happiness, I’ll end up sucking it dry, sucking the life out of it. We fall in love because we’re so excited about who that person is. If I lose who I am as an individual, if I become HER version of Walter,

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But He Really Loves Me

But He Really Loves Me

He’s not actually my type, but he really loves me. This mindset usually ends up with the female wanting to “fix”, change, the male, so that he is more her type. Unless we have a life-changing epiphany, most of the time we don’t change much. In order to have a

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Expectations

Expectations?

Chances are you will lose, if meeting your expectations is your priority. Focus instead on gratitude for what that person or situation is offering you. Then your heart stays open. Others will respond to you in positive ways, and you will be happy. Stick with gratitude.

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Pleasers Lose Respect

Pleasers Lose Respect

Lovers love to be pleased, but ultimately end up bored, or even losing respect for the pleaser. If my only priority is pleasing her, chances are I will end up losing my individuality, and then I’ll have nothing left to contribute to the relationship besides pleasing her. In order to

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Relationship lessons. Get Any?

Relationship Lessons. Get Any?

Almost none of us ever got a lesson in how to have a love relationship! And most of our parents set really bad examples. Educate yourself!! Read books, watch videos, learn how to communicate and how to act. Or, make an appointment with me. I love to help.

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