The quality of my life is the quality of my relationships. All of them – significant others, friends, coworkers, clients, family. Life is relationships. We seem to define who we are by who loves us. And who’s responsible for making my relationships great? ME!!
Feeling lonely? Imagine holding 5-year-old you on your lap, look into the eyes of little you, feel the soul of little you, and hear and FEEL little you saying to adult you, “look how far we’ve come, look what we overcame, I’m proud of you, I love you.” You won’t
Are You In Love? Do you really like this person, respect them? Do you feel good about yourself when you’re with this person? Do you miss them passionately when you’re not together? Are you excited for your friends and family to meet them? Do you feel a strong spiritual and
When you first fell in love, you were way excited, constantly expressed adoration, and love. You loved everything about them, you overlooked things that weren’t perfect, sometimes even thought those things were sort of cute. There’s no reason to ever stop. Then you will have blissful love.
Love is not enough! There has to be trust and respect and kindness and admiration and appreciation and gratitude and sweetness of speech and emotional intimacy as well as physical intimacy. Not just sometimes. Always.
Bring Your Best Self Like you did in the beginning, bring your best self, always. He or she truly does not owe you anything just because you love them. In the beginning, you gave and gave – love, admiration, praise, attention, respect. And you loved everything about them, likely even
Who Loves Ya, Baby? It’s the 5-year-old in us who falls in love. And it’s the 5-year-old in the other person that we fall in love with. That sweet, precious, innocent, beautiful, little one who came from the spirit world just 5 years ago, and who wants nothing more than
#4. Always Do Your Best The Fourth Agreement from don Miguel Ruiz. We accept that in order for us to be loved we have to love ourselves. In order to genuinely love ourselves, we have to feel good about ourselves, and be proud of ourselves. To accomplish that we must
The Second Agreement from don Miguel Ruiz. When my partner or friend is having a bad day, chances are it’s not about me. We all live very intricate lives that involve a lot of challenges outside our relationship . When I decide that it’s about me and get hurt, then
Just a moment! All you have to handle is just this moment. You don’t have to change your whole life right now. Just this moment. And make this moment fun. How? Gratitude, gratitude, gratitude… for anything, anyone, right now. That makes this moment much lighter, much easier, much more fun.