“Love is but the discovery of ourselves in others, and the delight in the recognition.” Alexander Smith, a Scottish poet, clearly a romantic man, wrote these words in the 1800’s. My observation is that we are drawn to people, whether as friends or as lovers, who are similar to us,
Giving Love You can’t give something that you don’t have. If you want to give love, you have to have love to give. If you don’t love yourself, then you actually don’t have any love to give to someone else. In order give love, you absolutely have to love yourself
You’re so mad at yourself? How the hell does that help you? Consider saying, “Ooh, I really did not want to do that. Now I know exactly how to avoid it. Thank you!
Don’t try to control him. Men, maybe all of us, usually hate to be controlled, and he will likely run away.